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How to Respond When Emotions Make You Crazy ?>

How to Respond When Emotions Make You Crazy

In recent months, my husband and I have differed in opinion on a certain topic. The thing is, I hid my feelings from him, harboring my thoughts and nursing an attitude I couldn’t quite identify. It felt familiar, yet the source was elusive. Thankfully, clarity came one morning through the hot blast of a blow dryer. Once upon a time there was this little girl… When I was around eleven, I had an intense conversation with my sister. It was more…

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How to Rescue Yourself from an Emotional Island ?>

How to Rescue Yourself from an Emotional Island

For weeks now, an unwelcomed cloak of “what’s the point” has weighed on me. I’ve analyzed it, tried to study its origin and have given it free reign in my brain. But today, I’ve had a welcomed breakthrough. Fraternizing with the Enemy That was my first mistake – I entertained it. At first glance I should have sent that gloom-and-doom oppressor packing. Instead, I got distracted by problem solving. I had a mental flow chart mapping out its step-by-step progression. And that was wrong…

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Go From Self-Critical to Worthy with One Simple Belief ?>

Go From Self-Critical to Worthy with One Simple Belief

During my senior year of high school, my class chose me to be Student County Commissioner for a Day. Students from each area school participated in a live session to discuss county affairs. We deliberated on budget issues, permit requests and various county matters. I didn’t see it then, but the Lord used that experience to speak to me about His calling in my life. Mustering courage is tough on your own. I was honored to take part in that…

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How to Make the Past Your Best Faith Asset ?>

How to Make the Past Your Best Faith Asset

One summer in the late 1970’s, a swarm of locusts blanketed my neighborhood. My eight-year-old eyes were amazed at their massive numbers. Three and a half decades later, God used that memory to prove His restorative power to me. THE AFTERMATH There wasn’t a single piece of vegetation those bugs didn’t gnaw to shreds. Gardenias, azaleas, honeysuckle vine leaves – they feasted on them all. That year, we had some shabby shrubbery. It was after the locusts left town fat…

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Ultimate Messages of Hope Right When You Need Them ?>

Ultimate Messages of Hope Right When You Need Them

A friend texted me today with despairing news. I scoured my memory for words to relieve her heart. And for a moment, I was at a loss. But then the words emerged. Come to find out, I had been looking for them in the wrong place. Tool Time Every moment represents need. Heartbreak, tragedy and loss are no discriminators of men. Within it all lies opportunity to share hope – the only Hope of the world. We just need the right…

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The Truth about Uncertainty and How to Overcome It ?>

The Truth about Uncertainty and How to Overcome It

If I ask you to recall a pivotal moment in your life, I bet you could come up with a few. One second, your thoughts and expectations flowed in one direction, and suddenly your mental trajectory took a 90° swing, or even 180°. What causes that? What has the power to upend us in such a way? The truth is, it’s all around us. We can’t get away from this perspective-shifting, emotion-riling element. You already know what it is – it’s…

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How Easter Actually Transforms Struggles Into Opportunities ?>

How Easter Actually Transforms Struggles Into Opportunities

I was about seven years old when the father of a friend walked past me at the Kmart in Homewood, Alabama. “Hi Becki,” he said warmly as he walked by. Instead of saying, “Hi Mr. So-and-so, how are you?” I froze with fear. For me to speak words was like giving permission for someone to know me. And I couldn’t allow that. Without saying a word, I ran and hid. Little did I know, I wasn’t hiding at all. SCHLEPPING…

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